{"id":3007,"date":"2016-05-06T02:09:01","date_gmt":"2016-05-06T06:09:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wwwcp.umes.edu\/pr\/?p=3007"},"modified":"2026-07-13T22:03:33","modified_gmt":"2026-07-14T02:03:33","slug":"a-mothers-day-to-remember","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wwwcp.umes.edu\/scm\/a-mothers-day-to-remember\/","title":{"rendered":"A Mother&#8217;s Day to remember"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignright size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"484\" height=\"480\" src=\"https:\/\/wwwcp.umes.edu\/scm\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/219\/2021\/09\/Deborah-and-Erica-Williams.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3008\" srcset=\"https:\/\/wwwcp.umes.edu\/scm\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/219\/2021\/09\/Deborah-and-Erica-Williams.jpg 484w, https:\/\/wwwcp.umes.edu\/scm\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/219\/2021\/09\/Deborah-and-Erica-Williams-300x298.jpg 300w, https:\/\/wwwcp.umes.edu\/scm\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/219\/2021\/09\/Deborah-and-Erica-Williams-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/wwwcp.umes.edu\/scm\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/219\/2021\/09\/Deborah-and-Erica-Williams-50x50.jpg 50w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 484px) 100vw, 484px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Friday, May 6, 2016<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>PRINCESS ANNE, MD<\/strong>&#8211; (May 6, 2016) &#8211; Mother&#8217;s Day 2016 will be a special time for Deborah Williams, an administrative assistant with the University of Maryland Eastern Shore&#8217;s counseling center.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She is looking forward to seeing her daughter, Erica, receive her master&#8217;s in rehabilitation counseling from UMES. She also may have to look back over her shoulder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Deborah and Erica Williams will sit next to each other at the university&#8217;s May 20 commencement exercises; Deborah is also a master&#8217;s degree candidate in rehabilitation counseling.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mom will cross the stage first, fitting for the Brooklyn, N.Y. native who put going to college on hold while Erica and her younger brother pursued an education.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The irony is not lost on both women.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I&#8217;m extremely proud of my mother,&#8221; Erica said. &#8220;She and my father sacrificed so much for my brother and me.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;She worked very hard,&#8221; Erica said. &#8220;She didn&#8217;t give up on her passion. She went for her goal.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Deborah is approaching graduation day with &#8220;mixed emotions.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;This is another accomplishment my daughter has fulfilled,&#8221; Deborah said. &#8220;She&#8217;s going in a good direction, and to have experienced this with her has been amazing.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;It&#8217;s been a real joy,&#8221; mom said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Deborah waited for her children to finish their undergraduate studies before starting her own journey as a college student. She earned her undergraduate degree in business administration from UMES in 2013 and transitioned immediately into the master&#8217;s program in rehabilitation counseling.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I see the need that students need help,&#8221; said Deborah who became a UMES employee in 2003. &#8220;They need coping skills. I&#8217;ve found myself talking and listening to a lot of young people. This (master&#8217;s degree) was a natural fit for me.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Like her mother, Erica is also a UMES employee who juggled the responsibilities of full-time work with pursuit of a master&#8217;s degree.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A 2009 Morgan State University graduate, Erica is an admissions counselor who entered the UMES master&#8217;s program a year before her mother. Her job requires a lot of travel doing in-person recruiting, so the two women initially were on a different pace to graduate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Several factors spurred Erica to finish with a flourish; her mother&#8217;s determination and selflessness, and the novelty of graduating together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This semester, Erica completed a grueling 600-hour requirement of internship work that others typically spread out over multiple semesters.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I just told myself to be focused, be determined,&#8221; Erica said. &#8220;It&#8217;ll be a strong finish.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;She did a fantastic job,&#8221; Deborah said. &#8220;I&#8217;m in awe.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Erica said the notion of sharing a graduation memory &#8220;would be special. Not many people can say they earned the same degree as their mother at the same time.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They found themselves on occasion taking the same class, but played the relationship low key.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;We didn&#8217;t always sit together,&#8221; Erica said, &#8220;on purpose.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Some professors knew they were mother and daughter, while others eventually figured it out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cWe didn&#8217;t want to make a big deal about it\u201d on campus, Deborah said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Away from class, Erica acknowledges they motivated each other when assessed on their performance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cOh, we were definitely competitive,\u201d Erica said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Deborah, in fact, calls herself \u201ca motivator.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cIf I pushed hard, she would push hard. And she did,\u201d Deborah said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Both women agree that who finished with the better grades is a closely held family matter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Deborah and her husband, Eric, an Information Technology troubleshooter at UMES, \u201ctried to instill in (their) children education is important.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cIt&#8217;s the key to confidence, learning to depend on themselves and taking care of themselves,\u201d Deborah said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Deborah and Erica usually work the Hytche Athletic Center on graduation day when many UMES staffers are on duty for the big event. Not this year.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cThank goodness we have the day off,\u201d Deborah said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">May 20, 2016 &#8211; Mother&#8217;s Day 2.0 in the Williams&#8217; household.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\">#HawkPride&nbsp;<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&nbsp;<a href=\"mailto:umesnews@umes.edu\"><strong>UMES Office of Public Relations<\/strong><\/a><strong>, (410) 651-6669<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Friday, May 6, 2016 PRINCESS ANNE, MD&#8211; (May 6, 2016) &#8211; Mother&#8217;s Day 2016 will be a special time for Deborah Williams, an administrative assistant with the University of Maryland Eastern Shore&#8217;s counseling center. She is looking forward to seeing her daughter, Erica, receive her master&#8217;s in rehabilitation counseling from UMES. 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